sábado, 29 de enero de 2011

A Variety of Options

Hi again!!!!

Above is my new acquisition

Yesterday I went to the drug store to buy a hand fan. The girl behind the counter began to show me all of the fans she had, but I saw about ten or twelve of those before choosing the right one for me. Since I´m making a hand fan collection, I wanted to buy one and wanted it to schock me. I wanted to say: "that's my fan for sure" or ''it's so beautiful, this has to be mine'', from the moment I would see it.

We women should do the same thing with men, as men with women too, we should be slelective. Maybe we'll date a few guys (in women's case) that are not worth it before finding the right one. The one that will ssurprise us for the things he'll be willing to do for us. Don't be afraid to turn down some guys that simply don't fill your expextations, and don't feel afraid of being alone or thinking that you'll be alone forever. If you're not in a relationship right now, use this time for your own personal growth, maybe you'll get to know yourself much better than before, and maybe find other goals to achieve.



viernes, 28 de enero de 2011

First Round , The Last One

Why do you have to shup up yourself when someone humiliates or insults you unfairly?, sometimes we do it cause we are afraid and we keep on being molested and bullied by others. Well I'll tell you this: NO MORE!!!!! I've known some persons that do not wait for the third insult, they respond at the first one and they clearly make the other person know they want respect,and they get it. Why??,Cause they don't wait too much like we do sometimes, remember don't let them get away with it!!!!!!



Once In A Lifetime

Maybe this is the time to do that something that you've always wanted to do in your life. That dream that came with a sigh everytime you thought of it. This is your chance, your opportunity, and sometimes they might never appear again, so don't waste it.



jueves, 27 de enero de 2011


Why is that, there is people that just want to annoy other people's life?, Like in the case of some college professors. Some have in mind this: " If I went through a hard time when I was a student, I'm going to do the same things once I become a professor". Gosh, and they really take it seriously.



miércoles, 26 de enero de 2011

Words to Calm Down

"Inhale, exhale" this are the words that I repeat to myself whenever I'm angry. I want to follow my own dreams and path even if I am not pleasing anyone. I've got my own way to do things, it's nothing personal.



lunes, 24 de enero de 2011

Be Patient

"Patience is a virtue" that's how the saying goes, but I sincerely think it's been lost on this days. People just won't tolerate anything and this just can't continue like this. We have to be patient , so others would be patient to us too, right? I wouldn't like to think that humans have lost values as times evolves.



domingo, 23 de enero de 2011

Hidden Things

We are all special and gifted with a special talent or hability. It's just that sometimes we don't know what's our gift, you question yourself this: " what are we good at?" You haven't discover it yet, but let me tell you, someday you will. You know, my mother has a special ability to organize stuff. The other day I was picking up some things in my closet and tried to organize the better I could, but when I looked at my work I didn't like it, then my mom came and the way she gets things tidy up is just perfect. I totally lack her talent, it's not in my genes.



An Ornament For You

Makeup is one of the most spectacular things that a woman can do for her own self. Like my mom says:"It's so pretty when someone always tries to look good physically by wearing a bit of perfume or some face powder, looks like you're concerned about yourself when you do this things". She used to tell me this but now I really know the meaning of her words, as years passed I took note on this and is very true, getting yourself fixed can make you feel very pretty and good. But I am very clear about the makeup concept, to me it's like a face decoration. It should be visualized like this and not like an escape to ugliness or what we think that are our flaws. Come on!!!!, we all are already beautiful and unique. Just think that makeup will enhance your beauty more, like decorating yourself.

I think women should love themselves just as they are, because if they don't, they will put makeup to go out, and when they return they'll take it off, and Guess what? they'll still see the same person reflected in the mirror. In brief words love yourself cause if you don't, no one will and that's it. Other mistake I see often, don't fix up yourself to get a partner, Girl do it for you, you and you. To feel beutiful and powerful too.



jueves, 20 de enero de 2011

The Boomerang

How hard it is when someone tells you not to wish any bad to people that hurt you in some way because life will be in charged to make them pay sooner or later. And I´ll tell you one thing, this is very true. Don´t fill your life and heart with hate, just follow your path and dreams to whatever you want to do in life cause karma is really true.



miércoles, 19 de enero de 2011

After A Long Day

Sitting and watching the sunset while the wind blows and slowly moves the branches of the trees. And I have to go home already, but I don't want to because I feel too tired to drive. Not to mention the traffic jam at this hour. It´s getting late................



martes, 18 de enero de 2011

Other Activities

Nowadays technology is very important in our lives, it makes our job a lot easier and it could be good for the environment in some way. and why do I say is good for the environment??, because we can send and receive notes and letters through e-mails without having to cut down the precious trees to make paper. But there are people that can´t live without internet, or TV, or computers, etc. There´s no internet, their world is over, no electricity and the TV doesn´t work and that is a catastrophic situation. When things we like are not available we should look for other options, or another activity in this case. Reading a good book, writing, playing board games like CandyLand or Monopoly and drawing might be some good activities to replace the adavance technology for a while.



lunes, 17 de enero de 2011

Between Friendship and Love

Based on my expirience, having someone to love is the best thing that can happen to anyone. One feels like floating up in the clouds, but never, never, ever you should forget about a real and good friend. And when I say friend, I mean the true friends that have been with you through the years and in the bad, happy, sad, joyful moments in your life. Because if that special lover leaves, cheats on you or breaks up with you, your friends will remain there. Don't forget that!!!!!!!!



domingo, 16 de enero de 2011

New Hobby

In new year's eve I didn't have any resolutions for 2011, but I said I would let ideas come along the way. Well, I found a new hobby, collecting hand fans. I want to do it cause I love them, also cause they are so beautiful and useful. Above is a picture of a few that I have.



viernes, 14 de enero de 2011

First Time

If anything that you try, you do it for the first time, it's going to be hard. Then you'll get used to it.

sincerely ..........


miércoles, 12 de enero de 2011


......And now that distance and forgetfulness has stand in our path, I can only say that you have become smaller in my thoughts and invisibles to my heart.


Life Things

Balance is always a good thing, but sometimes it's also good to take one side, only when is necessary, of course.



lunes, 10 de enero de 2011

It is really true......

That sometimes whoever falls in love doesn't think clearly!!!!!!!!!

sábado, 8 de enero de 2011

A Different Turn

I love weddings and what they symbolize: the love between a man and a woman for all eternity, or at least that's how it's supposed to be, cause I know that many marriages don't last forever. I love to see the decorations, the flowers, the wedding dress, the cake and of course the whole wedding protocol. All of those things are so lovely.

Besides, I take advantage of the ocassion to look the best I can. Then at the wedding party happens what many singles like me hate so much, relatives start putting pressure on the single people!!!, saying: ''when are you getting married?'', "You're next'', ''Why haven't you found someone yet, it's getting late". Ugghhh Gosh, I hate that, really, really hate that, like if being single was a very bad thing, a disgrace or a catastrophic disaster. What's wrong with you people?, some of us want to wait sometime.

In addtion I have to say that this not only happens at weddings, also at family parties when the holidays come, it's just that it happened to me at a wedding. Many people get depressed when this questions are asked. Lucky for me that I don't get depressed, in fact I find it very amusing, LOL!!!! I enter a room and hold my head way of high like I'm saying: "I'm single and proud", there are no worries in head right now, no husband to cook for, no kids, no working cause I have to pay bills and a house, I work for me and my basic needs like the car, college, clothes, etc.

Hey, I love weddings!!!! as I said at the beginning, but I'm not interested on having one right now, there are other things (passions) in my mind. There lots of worlds that I want to explore and conquer.



viernes, 7 de enero de 2011

And the Critics May Go On...

Yes, unfurtunately. We have to learn that there is always someone that´s gonna criticize everything we do, even though the things we are doing are fine and correct...



jueves, 6 de enero de 2011

Live Scenery

Tonight I had the opportunity to write while I was in the car which wasn´t moving due to the slow traffic in San Juan. The bright lights, the public recreational squares, the buildings with old facade from when the Spanish came and colonized this country, and the great amount of people that is visiting this city tonight, make a picturesque scenery. Not to mention that when I visit the bay, I love to see the cruises, although there wasn´t any today. I was watching the live scene, while still stuck in the traffic that moved pretty slowly.



miércoles, 5 de enero de 2011

Simple things, Big things

Happens to be that sometimes I might find happiness in the most little and simple things that life can offer me. Moments that don't require big things and yet, are the ones that I enjoy and cherish a lot.

I prefer a thousand times drink hot chocolate and have an interesting chat with someone while watching the pouring rain through the window, than going to the movies and spend like 6 dollars in a ticket and another 5 more in popcorn and coke, then watch the movie that maybe it wasn't worth watching at all.



martes, 4 de enero de 2011

Painful Dreams

OOHH, What a beautiful dream I had last night!!!! No, it wasn't because i was dreaming with a handsome man like Brad Pitt, it was a much much better than that. My dream was about MONEY!!, LOL. I dreamed I found a 100 dollar bill on a store, YAY!!! Maybe my luck will change this year. Unfurtunately, my big excitement was cut off when my mom woke me up and I couldn't unfold the arm, neither open the grip that was holding veeeery tight my imaginary money. Ouch....